For a dedicated mother caring for her 57-year-old son, life became overwhelming after he suffered a stroke in 2016. Her son, now reliant on an electric wheelchair, needed her for nearly all daily activities. Alongside caring for him, she was also responsible for her husband, an Army veteran with dementia who receives skilled nursing care through the VA. The physical and emotional toll nearly led her to place her son in a facility, as her responsibilities felt insurmountable.

However, connecting with TCARE changed her path, helping her regain control and find relief through supportive resources and guidance.

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‍Finding Relief and Resources Through TCARE

After working with TCARE for a year, her caregiving experience transformed. TCARE specialists connected her with her local office of aging, collaborated closely with her son’s case manager and ensured he had the necessary services and equipment to enhance his quality of life. TCARE also provided educational resources on reducing stress, helping her realize it was okay to prioritize her well-being as she cared for her family.

This collaboration led to remarkable outcomes:

  • Significant Reduction in Caregiving Burden: With support in managing her son’s care, the once-overwhelming stress was greatly alleviated. TCARE’s guidance reassured her and offered concrete solutions that lifted her emotional load.
  • Physical Assistance with Daily Care Needs: Bathing her son was a challenging task, particularly as she feared the risk of falls and injuries. Through TCARE, she received the resources needed to make this task manageable, preventing hospital admissions or falls and ensuring her son’s safety. The support was transformative, as the caregiver herself explains: “Maria, Thank you for helping me get the shower bar for our bathroom. Since I hurt my shoulder, I was struggling to help Ricky and have been so afraid he would fall. Thanks for taking the time to really listen to me.” – Cassandra T, caregiver for son & husband.

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Emotional and Financial Stability

By helping her avoid institutional placement for her son, TCARE provided both emotional comfort and substantial financial relief:

  • $3,500 in Monthly Savings: Keeping her son at home allowed the family to save $3,500 per month, with nursing facility costs averaging $7,000 compared to $3,500 for home-based care.
  • Reduced Stress Across All Burden Areas: With her caregiving situation stabilized, she now reports low stress across all areas of caregiving, no longer feeling compelled to consider a facility placement for her son.

With TCARE’s ongoing support, this mother has moved from a state of high stress and worry to one of confidence and control, feeling empowered in her role as a caregiver and assured that she can continue caring for her son at home.

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Partner with TCARE

At TCARE, we understand the unique challenges caregivers face. We’re dedicated to providing personalized support, resources, and guidance that empower caregivers to continue caring with confidence. Reach out to learn how TCARE can help you or someone you know on their caregiving journey.